Emily Ratajkowski is a work in progress
In her book, she expresses the pressures she felt to rely on men, from dancing in a bare thong for Thicke and Pharrell, to dating a boy who forced himself on her in high school (“I ‘ would have liked someone to explain to me that I owed her nothing “), to play the” model woman “at a party for Bear-McClard in Hollywood, where she was caught and insulted by her colleagues of the” club of boys “.
But “a takeaway, I hope people know about this book, is that it’s not just, Oh, I got so hurt, and another #MeToo story,” she said. declared. “It’s a book on capitalism. I just have one asset that I traded that was specific, and I think most women do. Even if it’s in your marriage.
She has no plans to quit modeling, because she enjoys it and because “I want to keep making money”. Plus, even though she quit, she said, “I’m still going to be celebrity connected, because we all are.”
Ratajkowski knows that she is one of the minority of models – and authors – who can afford to control the narrative the way she does: take an NFT self-portrait and auction it off for $ 175,000, which she does. did in May; give up child care “because I like to do it”; to register your own brand. And yet, sending a book out into the world is also letting go.
“It’s scary that someone is just going to pull a quote and be like, that’s what she said about that juicy gossip,” Ratajkowski said, correctly predicting a Times of London Headline which ran a few weeks later: “Blurred Lines singer Robin Thicke assaulted me on set, says Emily Ratajkowski.” (Representatives for Thicke did not respond to requests for comment.)
Thicke is one plot point among many in a narrative that will inevitably be exploited for clickbait. “This is not a book where I try to undo the men I have known in my life,” she said. “I try to challenge expectations and also speak of nuance – in my identity, but also just in life and in my political convictions. And this is not a nuanced period.